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An unexpected birthday

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After the 'bad news' I never thought for a second I would see my 27th birthday.

I think I am still living back in May, and time, what with the campaign, petition, the parties, general fun and now the illness, has just disappeared.

I'm not normally a big fan of birthdays but it would seem daft not to mark this one.

Let's face it, and this is a bit sad to actually write, but it's very likely to be my last.

Despite still feeling poorly my family and I are still going to have a fun day today.

The comments from all you have been incredible as well. I have asked Liam to actually do some work for a change and get publishing them! We had about 60 in one minute!


Let's start with some good news.


It is my birthday.

The door has not stopped being banged on by post men and couriers bringing me cards and presents.

It is incredible. Me and my parents have never known anything like it.

A little journalist joke as well. Being 27 now will throw every single hack who covers my story again in the coming weeks and months.


The bad news is I still feel unwell.




My stomach is making noises I have never heard before. The volume of the gurgling is deafening.

It seems to start off in my chest and then helter skelter round my stomach and intestines.

I was up at least four times in the night so again I just need to sleep through.

Dehydration is my current biggest battle but I have already knocked back two pints of orange cordial with ice.

I feel unsettled and generally unwell.

The district nurse has just been round and taken blood and I couldn't help temporarily feel a bit sorry for myself with my lot.

Don't worry - I have bucked my ideas up now.

I don't think there will be any booze today and there won't be excessive eating but I am determined to stay out of hospital.

It's just so difficult having a very limited immune system.

My family and friends who have all come down with this bug are making progress.

I seem to be staying the same or, if anything, getting worse.

Thanks for all the best wishes.

They mean a lot to me.

More later.

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Comments (307)

Annajon:

Happy Birthday Adrian, and make it woopy!

Clare:

Hi Adrian

Happy Birthday... I hope you have a great day and make the most of it. I was pleased to hear that you have been allowed out of hospital for this special day.

Love and best wishes

Clare X

Tina:

Happy birthday dear Adrian. I do hope you have a fantastic day my friend, and continue sticking the proverbial 2 fingers at the illness. You are an inspiration. You really have made me put my life and my pitiful "problems" into perspective! You ROCK.

Loads of love and stuff to you and yours on your very special day. I can only imagine how proud your family must be of you because without meaning to sound patronising, you make me very very proud and I don't "know" you really. I'm just one of the thousands that try and walk with you with every post.

Take care dear friend.
Tina -X-X-X-X-

Lauren Garrigan:

Happy Birthday!!!!!
Best wishes to you and your family.
Hope you have a lovely day
Keep smiling,

Much love and hugs to you all
Lauren xxxxx

Darryl:

Happy Birthday mate!!

I know you must be feeling unwell, but i think it shows great spirit to battle on and have a good time.

Take care Ad. I hope the stomach problem is sorted out soon.

Darryl.

Alaine:

Happy Birthday Adrian, a bit of flat coke might help settle your stomach. There's no medical evidence to support this but my Auntie Bette swears by it!! :)
Enjoy your day.
Much love and hugs,

Alaine (London) x

Jessica:

Happy Birthday, enjoy it as much as you can!!!

Debbie Thomas:

Hi Adrian

I wrote to you a while ago, and have been following the blog ever since, I meant to write before and ask when your birthday was, as I remember reading something from you that your birthday was in July. So Happy Birthday to you!!. It is also my 3 year olds birthday today, and seeing as though your stomach is playing up I'll make sure that I have some iced gems, chocolate teacakes and Igglepiggle cake for you.

Take care, have a good day, and maybe a beer or two when you're feeling a bit better.

Debs XXX

Alison Collington:

Hi Adrian
Wishing you a great day. Reaching today is another milestone and something to be very proud of! Thinking of you and hope time passes slowly today for you to enjoy every minute of becoming 27.
Alisonxxxx

Ree:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Adrian.

Sorry you are still feeling below par, but hopefully the gurgling will stop soon. The trouble is, when you are already seriously ill, any bug is going to knock you back quite badly.

I hope you have a wonderful day and I am sure you will be thoroughly spoiled (which of course you deserve to be). You talk about not expecting to be here for this birthday, with all the love, prayers and good wishes from all over the world, you could very well be saying the same next St. Swithins day!!!

My love as always to you and your family.

Bless you

Ree

rob:

happy birthday Adrian

rob

Paul:

Happy Birthday my friend - hope you are out of the H soon

jane bailey:

hi
hope you enjoy your birthday as best you can
,enjoy having friends round and thanks to liam for keeping us updated yesterday


take care

jane xx

Kate Halls:

Hello darling Adrian!

Happy birthday to you!

Sending much love and huge amounts of birthday hugs to you.

Kate xx

Anonymous:

Congrats mate. Hope you have a terrific Birthday.

All the best

Dan

Leyla King:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIGER

Have a great day, we are thinking of you

love you loads

Leyla & Anne

x x x x

suzanne:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADRIAN, Glad you don't have to spend it in hospital.

Your bravery astounds me every day,My mam was also brave when she had breast cancer which spread to her brain stem, she like you didn't want to suffer and to be honest she didn't her passsing was so peaceful and serene, i just wish every one when their time comes to have such a passing.

Just know adrian that you HAVE made such a positive impression on everyone you have touched with your story and with us all behind you, you can bet your bottom dollar that your campaign won't stop.

Wishing you peace and tranquility my friend

hugs

suzanne

Jo:

Happy Birthday xx

Karen Beverley:

Happy Birthday Adrian!!!

I have just e mailed your dad to say the same.

Have a wonderful day together

Love Karen

Vickie:

Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day.

Lots of love and hugs to you and your family and friends.

xxxx

Cheryl Thompson:

Adrian

Have a good day today.....and tomorrow....and the day after......

Think you are entitled to feel a bit sorry with your lot, but knowing you (albeit only through this blog) it was only ever going to be a temporary downer. Enjoy today as much as your gurgling insides allow, and hope you get a good night's rest tonight.

Thinking about you on this special day and will raise a glass to you later - just in case you dont feel up to doing it yourself of course.

Cheryl xx

Cillian:

Happy Birthday Adrian. I hope that you enjoy your day immensely!

Greg Iredale:

Happy birthday Adrian (27)!

Hope you enjoy it as much as possible.

Donnas friends held a charity concert and raised £3000 for leukaemia research last friday. We had a great night and it was lovely to see everyone there remembering Donna.

Thanks to everybody involved, and our star "turns" Roger Davies, and Barry Sheerman.

I keep seeing you pop up all over the place, and was glad to hear you on 5 Live this week.

Cheers

Greg

Julia:

Dear Adrian,

Happy Birthday to You
Happy Birthday to You
Happy Birthday lovely fella
Happy Birthday to You

And you've been spared my singing - what more could you want?

Have the best day possible and rest assured you and yours are in everyones' thoughts and prayers.

Keep on keeping on.

Much love and good energies,

Julia xx

Alexandra:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ADRIAN! I hope the gifts and warm wishes you receive on this very special day lift your spirits and help make you feel better. We'll be raising a glass in your honour tonight.
Virtual hugs from
~Italic Alexandra

Erika:

Dear Adrian,

have a wonderfully happy Birthday.
erika

Helen Garratt:

Happy Birthday Adrian. Hope you can stomach some cake and a few nice nibbles today. I bet you get some really unusual gifts, could you handle a stripper?!!!

As for the beer - have you tried diaralyte (sp??) It's good to replace salts etc lost when you have a stomach upset. Might perk you up a bit if they let you have it. I swear by it if I have a hangover lol. The blackcurrant one tastes best. Not as nice as a cold pint but hey ho!

Thinking of you daily and wishing you lots more good days over the coming months.

Hugs

Helen x

karen belton:

Happy Birthday Adrian
I hope today is a great day for you and your family !!

love Karen x

Lesley Bradshaw:

Happy 27th Birthday!

Congratulations and best wishes!

I hope you're stomach problems are sorted soon. I read your blog regulary and just never know what to say to such an inspirational and incredible person. You are amazing. Keep similing and fighting!

I just had to wish you a Happy Birthday.
Love to you all,

Lesley xx

Barbara:

Dearest Adrian
Wishing you a happy boozy birthday. Surrounded by your wonderful family and friends. Look forward to hearing about it. I will be raising a glass to you tonight.
Much love and the biggest hug
Barbara XX

Jen:

Happy Birthday Adrian- I'm glad that you got out of the hospital for it! I hope that you're feeling better today, and that you get spoiled rotten on your birthday!!

Thinking of you,

Jen

Gavin:

Happy birthday, Adrian. Hope you enjoy(ed) it!

Gavin in Germany.

Peter Rollason:

Adrian

Best wishes for your Birthday.

I hope that your symptons clear up quickly, to enable you some more quality time with your family.

God bless

Craig Mac:

Happy birthday Adrian!!

Don't worry about the 'no booze' bit. I was on a stag do on Saturday and felt bloody terrible!! Wish I had 'no booze'....you know how it is mate LOL.

Keep smiling : )

Mac x

Rachel:

Hi Adrian

Thinking of you & your family on this very special day and wishing you all the best. All us readers are so proud of you, I hope your bug lets up a bit so you can enjoy your day, you really deserve it!

Sending lots of love, birthday hugs and positive thoughts.

Rachel xxxxx

Pru:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Carpe diem...

All these people, all round the world (that's the world that you've changed for the better) thinking of you!

Sandra Markey:

Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday
Happy birthday

Make sure you are right-royally spoilt by everyone... you deserve it!

Sandra x

Rachel Harrison:

Dear Adrian

You truly are an inspirational guy. You have done a tremendous job to raise awareness of the vital necessity for more people to join the bone marrow register and the importance of reaching out to 6th formers. I read your blog often and it is hard not to feel sorry for you even though you do not feel sorry for yourself. You have brought a lot of people together despite the underlying sadness. Well done to you. Take Care.

Rachel

Jo:

Dear Adrian,

I too have found myself checking your blog daily (since I read about you in the paper way back in May) to see if you have anything else to report - like an obsessive stalker actually if you must know!

I totally agree with every comment that has been said about you and your campaign. You are an inspiration.

I just had to take this opportunity of wishing you very best wishes on your special day.

Hope it doesn't rain! Enjoy!

Emma:

Happy Birthday Adrian,

You truly are a star and more people can learn so much from you.

Well done and enjoy your special day.

Em x

Laura Staveley:

Happy, Happy Birthday Adrian!!!!!!!!
Will raise a glass in your honour tonight!
Hope you get totally spoilt by friends and family, you deserve it!
Lots of love to you,
X

Randi:

Happy Birthday from Texas! So glad you will get to celebrate this day at home with family and friends. May you feel generally well today. You inspire us all!

Randi

Jenny:

Hi Adrian,

Happy Birthday!!

I have never posted to you before, but, today is a very special day for you and I wanted you to know that you have made more 'pen friends' and admirers that you will probably ever know. I have been reading your blog for the last three months or so and every day I log on to see how you are keeping. Sometimes I think I know more about you than my own family!

Your plight and dogged determination to keep going and not let your ilness beat you is amazing.

I have taken your campaign to heart and unfortunately due to a blood transfusion five years ago I cannot help, but, I have been persistant with friends and colleagues to donate blood and bone marrow.

I hope that you have a wonderful day with what only can be called an amazing family and wonderful circle of friends and I hope that you can manage some birthday cake :)

Love and warm wishes to you and all your family,
Jenny & Family

Andrea Lewis:

Happy bithday Adrian, no one deserves a good one more than you. I think of you often, and try to remember to pray for you and your family every day. With love and best wishes from the Lewis family in Swansea.

Vicky:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY :) Enjoy your day xx

Happy Birthday Adrian! Thinking of you very much and so glad the sun has made an appaearance for your special day as well! Take care and have a nice day,
Emma x

Michelle (in Florida):

Happy birthday to one of the most amazing men in the world!

Michelle

Heather:

Happy Birthday! So pleased you're spending it with the people you love x x

Kate Ray:

Happy happy birthday Adrian!

May the gods smile down on you and pull out all the stops for a very special day today.

When my old man gets home tonight, we will raise a couple of glasses of excellent Shiraz in your honour.

Kate & Co
XX xxx

Sarah C:

Bonjour Adrian

I hope you have a birthday fit for a real Hero. I get a strong feeling that you were put on this earth to make a big difference and that's what you're doing. And then there are people like me who may live to be 100 but may never have such meaning to their time on this beautiful planet. I take my hat off to you and know that you have inspired me and many others with your story.
Have a superb birthday and I hope your tummy troubles ease off so you can have a big slice of CAKE !! (the word CAKE must be said with teeth tightly clenched and a big cheesy grin on your face!!)
Happy Birthday from the Ardeche. (France)

Best wishes to you and your family
Sarah

shalyn:

Happy Birthday!!! I know your having a time with this bug but I do wish you the most incredible birthday with surprises in the folds of the day!

Praying for this stomach bug to bugger off...

happy birthday , may it be filled with joy and fun

HaPpY bIrThDaY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thinking of you today, and wishing you well. Your positive impact on the world is greater than anyone will ever know, you are amazing!

Danielle

Anna Spencer:

Adrian,

your amazing! what more is there to say! though i think you probably already know this as many people have told you so! Happy Birthday, maybe when your over this stomach problem, you can celebrate properly with family and friends.

I've been reading your blogs for a while now and you inspire me!

Keep up the good work, rest and play!
Anna Liverpool

Rebecca:

Hey Adrian! Happy Birthday!! I really hope that even through the gurgling stomach pains you have a great day today! No one deserves a great day today as much as you! Love and best wishes, always in my thoughts! Bex xx

Lynda Hebblethwaite:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY - WISHING YOU A WONDERFUL DAY

LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE

GARRY, LYNDA AND JAMES HEBBLETHWAITE

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Lorraine Howard:

Many happy returns Adrian, enjoy your day being surrounded by your loved ones. We've out your story in our paper, the Irvine Herald, this week to make sure readers in Ayrshire sign your petition.

Sara:

Embrace and enjoy your special day! Happy Birthday! Sara - Ohio

Lauren Chadwick:

Happy birthday Adrian
I met you briefly at a council meeting once (I work on Dewsbury Reporter) and I've been really touched by your story. I am 27 as well and being the same age I cannot imagine going through what you are with such bravery and dignity.
You are an inspiration and I hope you enjoy your day - you deserve it.
Lauren

Ingrid:

Happy Birthday Adrian! Hope you have a wonderful day (despite the lousy stomach problems) with your friends and family.

Ingrid
Netherlands Antilles

Trac:

Happy Birthday Adrian.
xxx

Kim:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADRIAN!!!! I'm sure your friends and family will help you make it a great one!!!

Enjoy and feel better!!!

Kim (NY-USA)

jane bailey:

hi
previous message lost in space
hope you manage to enjoy you birthday, proper party cordial and cake ! make sure you have jelly as well

hope you enjoy your day


jane xx

Lesley Moore:

Hello Adrian

I'll keep it simple - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Hope the sun shines down on you and your family today.

Lesley
x

Nikki Sargeson:

Happy Birthday Adrian! Best wishes, Nikki xx

Sage:

Happy Birthday Adrian, sorry you are still under the weather with the bug but have a great day with the family...

Sage

Lacey:

Reminds me of a nursery school church song my kids used to sing: "This is the day that the lord hath made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it." I'm not a real "churchy" kinda gal, but boy does that song ring true today! True, it may be harder to rejoice when your guts are rumbling, but I know you'll do your best. Party on, Sudders!
xoxoxoxoxoxox

Lianne:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADRIAN

I CAN'T THINK OF ANYONE WHO DESERVES A GREAT BIRTHDAY MORE THAN YOU DO!

AND MY GOD MAN - IF YOU CAN'T FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF ONCE IN A WHILE THEN WHO THE HELL CAN.

KEEP THE FLUIDS FLOWING - IT'S THE BEST WAY TO STAY OUT OF HOSPITAL AND THIS I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE! ENJOY YOUR DAY WITH YOUR FAMILY.

LIANNE XXX

Elizabeth:

In a strange way, this might be a gift...so many of us know people who celebrated their last birthday not knowing it was, or lived their last days not knowing, and may have regretted not appreciating every moment for the gift that it is.

Reading your blog has made me (and so many others, I might guess) appreciate every moment more...so I guess you managed to give US a present. Thank you.

Wishing you all the best and that this, indeed, is the happiest of days for you.

With kind regards,

Elizabeth

Beth:

Hi Adrian,

I hope you have the happiest of birthdays with all of your family and friends. I wish you a win for your campaign...that would be the best birthday present for all of us.

Beth

Anna:

Happy Birthday Adrian!

Thinking of you today as everyday! I hope your birthday is as special as you are! I checked the petition earlier and it is so close to the 10,000 mark. Come everyone, let's try and get those last 1,700 and give Adrian a birthday present to remember!

Best wishes to you and your family. I hope you all feel better soon.

Carolina:

Hi Adrian,

I have been reading your blog for a very long time but I have never left a message, I had no idea what to say and so many others had already said everything I felt in such a clear and eloquent way that I thought my words would not make a difference. But today is different, I want to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

I do from the bottom of my heart wish you the best!

Carolina
USA

Jill and Paul:

Adrian - Happy Birthday!

Glad you are out of hospital and able to spend your day with friends and family.

Big Hugs.

Jill and Paul
xx

Bex:

Happy Birthday fella.

Best Wishes

Becky.

xxxx

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADRIAN!
Sorry your still feeling under the weather. Keep drinking the fluids as that will help & hopefully keep you out of the hospital.
Sounds like you have an awesome family support group & a hell of a bunch of friends. Enjoy them.

Julie
USA

Happy Birthday to you Adrian!

Ann:

Happy birthday, Adrian. You are a true inspiration and I continue to be amazed by everything you do. Thank you so much for allowing us access to your life and thoughts. Reading your blog and following your story has been, and continues to be, and honor. Have a fantastic day! We will be celebrating for you here in the US. Happy Adrian Sudbury day!

Love,

Ann
North Carolina, United States

Therese Prophet, Mesa AZ:

Its hard to tag something after all of these fantastic emails and posts to you Adrian...Hard to come up with the words..Your huge family out here in cyber world is grateful today and every day for every word...

Its coming to you HEART TO HEART.....God bless you, God Bless my daddy and God Bless my friend Connie who also has cancer...all having birthdays today...Its over the top, simply over the top that we still have all three of you...

much love, Therese